When we make a connection who or what do we connect to?
Your inner self
Your soul nature
Your Higher Self
The Oneness (also known by some as God or God nature)
The Force is the active energy of the Oneness
Just Being is passive. Moving that energy to effect something is taking action
Just Being one with all is the action of Knowing: called Knowingness
Knowing gives you the ability to make the connection.
When was the first time you noticed that there was a special sense of oneness or a way of connecting?